Dominance

 Dominance isn't about sex.

A D/s isn't just about bondage,

and, you and all that kinky stuff you think it is. 

and it's not about keeping a sex slave. 

The problem is that what 90% of people think when they come into the lifestyle, but the wrong Dominance is about being there for the submissive, working through the submissive meltdowns, it's accepting the submissive for who she/he is, it's about being asked do you love me for the millionth time and reinsuring the submissive. 

If tucking the submissive in every night to quiet the demons, or say no. it's being her/his strength.it's struggling off her/his anger and frustrating and encouraging when you can't on her/his own, it's comforting when she/he is scared, it's guiding and building her/him up and most of all it's loving her/him. 

It's a lot of hard work to put into this relationship. it's not fun and not a game or role play like you think it is. but it can be very rewarding. i live it and seen it on my journey. 

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Author Natalie. S.