Findom part one robbery

Findom is like robbing someone taking everything they have. It's getting really bad in the BDSM lifestyle world.
It can leave a person homeless. I know because it happened to a slave friend of mine. That is why I decided I was going to write an article about this and a book. But this was cut short.
I never seen so much hate and greed until I join these groups to get the information to write these articles and my book.
Then I see what really breaks my charging for your submission really that is so wrong submission is a gift to be earned and card for. Not used against you.
I wasn't even part of there actions and I got so many haters and it was starting to wreck my life.
All I am is BDSM lifestyle writer so I knew I needed to get my information and get out of it fast to get this peice done, before it completely ruined my life being there I no action in this or didn't want a part of it.
They theifs and that's exactly what findom is. It needs to come to a stop.
Pay me to please me you are basically selling yourself on a street corner. That is not BDSM this is another reason why findom needs to stop.
It is ruining the true meaning of BDSM lifestyle. It's such a huge problem in this lifestyle.
Here is another example of one findom
Come be my piggy this is another example of selling yourself.
Let's come together spread the word why findom is so wrong and not true BDSM and should be band from BDSM lifestyle.
I decided I couldn't be apart writing this series and the book on this project I will post and finish what information I have on findom.
Being in these groups was wrecking my life and never been hated so much has I was there.
I didn't want to be judged has findom person so I left the groups and cut this article short.

© Dom to sub love

It happened to me it can happen to you

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent.   2. Give warning.   3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots   4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force)  5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe.   6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

Note Real story from a real submissive that happened to her from a fake Master

This shit happen way to offen on Facebook jumping in to D/s relationship way to fast

Under age and fake posing individuals

BDSM 101: Underage Individuals In BDSM,  Adult Blogging Community...

1. We do not support underage individuals in BDSM.

It is a widely held belief within the community, that underage individuals are not intellectually or emotionally ready for many of the activities found in kink. The age of 18 is even a thin  dividing line for many things in the world, because the personal development necessary for adult activities such as viewing porn, voting in elections, and serving in the military, is not complete until you reach the age of 18 or even 21. The dividing line does not exist to spite you personally, if you are not 21 Sorry/not sorry, if we, ( The BDSM community), want to look out for your best interests, even if you don’t.

**Unfollow , and stop visiting our blogs, if you are not yet 21 years old.**

2. I do not support those who enable or encourage underage individuals to explore BDSM.

Regardless of your intentions, you are telling underage individuals that it’s OK to be in our adult community, break what rules they feel don’t apply to them, ignore BDSM rules and community etiquette, and enabling them to remain within the reach of adult predators in a desirable environment for them to operate within. 

**Unfollow, and stop visiting our blogs, if you do not actively discourage underage individuals from being in adult Tumblr spaces.**

3. I do not support those underage individuals who hide themselves behind a fake profile, without declaring their age, who explore BDSM in secret.

Being vague about how old you are, does not alter the fact that you should not be in adult spaces, that you are breaking the rules, or that you are endangering yourself by leading to believe that you are a legal member of our community. BDSM is a world of many rules. If you are unable to follow the first rule today, of waiting until you are 21 to join the community, you are demonstrating why you are not ready to be a part of this adult world, by building the foundation of your BDSM journey, on an unspoken lie. 

**Unfollow, and stop visiting our blogs, if you refuse to either display your true name, your age, or declare that you are of legal age, obviously and openly on your profile.**

4. I do not support those underage individuals who lie about name, how old they are on profile, in order to explore BDSM in secret. 

Lying about how old you are, does not alter the fact that you should not be in adult spaces, that you are breaking the rules, or that you are endangering yourself by leading to believe that you are a legal member of our community. BDSM is a world of activities that require good communication skills. If you are unable to be forthright with us, by honestly telling us name and how old you are today, you are demonstrating why you are not ready to be a part of this adult world, or starting your journey within it, by the foundation of your intentional lie.   

**Unfollow, and stop visiting our blogs, if you are actively lying to adult bloggers about name and your age in order to remain among us.**

5. I do not support those underage individuals who create unused fake profiles, so they can explore BDSM in secret. 

Omitting who you are, and/or how old you are, does not alter the fact that you should not be in adult spaces, that you are breaking the rules, or that you are endangering yourself by leading others to believe that you are a legal member of our community. If you are unable to be forthright with us by honestly telling us either who you are, or how old you are, you are demonstrating why you are not ready to be a part of this adult world, or starting your journey within it, with the foundation of a lie of omission.  

**Unfollow, and stop visiting our blogs, if you are intentionally hiding behind the gray-face of an anonymous fake and/or empty profile, because you are not yet 21, in order to remain among us.**

6. I do not support underage individuals in adult spaces. 

No one would be surprised if a young teen girl claimed to feel upset, violated, grossed-out, or stalked by a predator, if they were approached by a middle-aged man, in a sexual context. Here’s something that may surprise you: I am upset, and feel forced into an awkward, unethical, and an illegal situation, every time I discover I have been inadvertently interacting with kids in my adult space. When I post that picture of a Dominant, roughly fucking the face of His submissive, I’m not throwing it on my wall for the enjoyment or education of thirteen year-olds, 15 year-olds, or 17 year-olds. 

**Unfollow, and stop visiting our blogs, if you don’t give a fuck how you are making me feel, by not allowing me to choose whether I post that picture of a Dominant, roughly fucking the face of His submissive, to kids like you.**

Author’s Note: If you are an underage individual reading this, you are likely feeling personally attacked, and discriminated against at this point. Let me assure you, that our adult community has nothing personally against you, beyond the amount of time that has passed in your life, since the day you were born. We don’t care if you are a boy or a girl. We don’t care if you are a uniquely developed child, ready for adult things, at a young age. We don’t care how pretty you are, how wise you are, how long you’ve been having sex, or engaging in other illegal activities, like drinking. Even if we had the foresight to know that you would one day be an outstanding member of the community, we do not want you here today. Everything above applies to you through the day you are 17 years, and 364 days old. Nothing above applies to you the following day. 

Exercise patience. Follow the rules. Start your journey right. This is what we want for you. We will be here when you’re 21, and really know what the lifestyle is about it's not all  fun and games, and we welcome you with open arms.