To get respect is to earn respect

To get respect is to earn respect

1. Focus: You want your Caregiver to seriously attend to your relationship and needs. 

2. Structure: You want routines in your care so that you have daily reminders of your submission and your Caregiver’s interest in your life.

3. Protection: You want to feel safer in this relationship than in a typical vanilla relationship. A watchful eye and Caregiver that takes your dynamic seriously is important. 

4. Guidance: You want to feel like your Caregiver has an interest in your personal development, goals for you, and is consistently walking you towards a idyllic vision of you they have within themselves. 

5. Adventure: You want to not know what is going to happen when the door closes and the clothes come off. You want to live daily with the knowledge that your Caregiver may ask you to do all sorts of sordid things you are somewhat uncomfortable with, or excited about, from out of the blue. 

6. Respect: You want to know that your Caregiver respects you, your limits, and the wishes you have for the relationship you are entering in together. 

7. Love/affection: You want to know that your Caregiver can give you the amount of this that you desire within your dynamic, and at least enough of it to navigate through effective aftercare. 

8. Accountability: You want to know that your Caregiver is going to enforce the rules and dole out punishment when they are broken.

9. A High Level of Trust: You want to feel a bright and shining sense of trust for everything it takes for you to submit fully to your Caregiver.

I hope this gives you some things to discuss and some ways to express why they are important Miss. Best of luck!