This is a big part in a D/s relationship or any relationship for that matter.
Frist thing you want your submissive to obey, first thing you need to do is train her.
No submissive is perfect not even a Dominant.
A submissive needs to learn to do things the way a dominant likes it done.
Good training stats with great rules.
You need to talk to your submissive and tell her what you expect out of her.
The Dominant needs to check the submissive.
If done well give the submissive award if not give the submissive a punishment.
Never wait to give a punishment always give when it's fresh in the submissive mind if not the submissive will not learn.
The submissive needs structure from the rules and punishments, just remember rules are not enough for a submissive being.
A submissive needs to be doing more then just good enough this is what makes a submissive thrive.
Have a talk about limits so you know what you can push and push the submissive limits on this will also help in good obedience.
Sometimes a submissive likes to be playful this is disobedience and plain out sloppy.
Both you the Dominant and the submissive need to communicate with each other, it's the only way a D/s will work.
Lashing out and getting angry is not being a good submissive at all or a good Dominant. if you keep doing that to each other you may not be a good match or you have issues you need to work out.
Pay attention learn each other it's the only way it will work out.
If you can't do this you will be unhappy.
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