Frist step in training her.

First step in training her to be perfect submissive is allowing her to be perfect submissive, and only way to do that is to relieve her of the burden of caring and worrying about herself and her own needs. If you can't do that for her then. She can't property let go and submit.
This is what really makes difference between vanilla couples. There is no room for selfishness or ego He puts her first and she puts Him first. It's really the only way needs are met.
If it seems like too much work or your to selfish or lazy or lack the will or lack the time or energy your not ready for this lifestyle and the responsibility. Then your not ready for reality not ready to be a Dominant or submissive.

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