Knowing a Dominant

   I frequently run into Dom's that say
"You must call me Sir " or " you will obey me"
This is not dominance and it is not something
That someone command of a submissive.
Submission is earned, just like respect.

   Dominance is accepting and guiding the
submissive. Helping the submissive over
come their fears, helping a submissive grow
And nurturing her fears.


   A Dominant is understanding of physical,
emotional and mental. A Dominant has the ability
offer comfort and security during times of need
without compassion you are not a Dominant but
sadist.

   Dominant should act courtesy and respect.
Should avoid act rude, crude In their actions.

   Dominant should poise and have the ability
to charge in any situation.

   A Dominant should be able to bring calming
Influence, under any pressure in any stressful
situation.

   A Dominant dosnt put his needs above the
submissive.

   A Dominant should display loyalty and
unending devotion to the submissive.

   Dominant are patient it's the key to their
growth and success in their submissive.
Dominant should invest time and not get
frustrated with their submissive.

   A Dominant needs to be responsible, in
control of their actions and accepting of
results of their actions. They should apologize
for their mistake.

   Dominant should be respectful at all times
to his pears and His submissive. A Dominant
should also maintain a high level of self-respect.

   A Dominant is only good to serve their submissive,
by consenusally applying their natural dominance
over the situation and their submissive.

   This is the way a Dominant should be. This is a
Dominant open hand, willing to guide nature and
aid, not Dominant you call Sir or to obey. That is
Earned.