D/s relationship

   D/s relationship is not based on sex or kink, many think it is,
but it's not. It is based on agreed power exchanged.
   The roles are more defind then a vanilla relationship, but it's
more then that. It is about connection between two people in a
manner they communicate it could be a bedroom or outside the
bedroom or both.
   It takes a lot time spending, nurturing and building a bond between
the Dominant​ and the submissive.
   A Dominant has many responsibilities physical and mental well-being​
of the submissive, which involves going deep in the submissive mind
peeling away insecurities and rebuilding with strength.
  A D/s relationship requires levels of trust for beyond traditional
relationship. Trust is a delicate element. Yes trust is a part of any
relationship, but in a D/s relationship it sometimes involves extra
mental and physical risks. The submissive needs to feel safe if
they are to fully release. This requires structure and routine with tasks
which involves evolution and self-discipline.
   There are defined rules, but it is a free choice for those involved in the
relationship. It could be based on the depth of the bond between the D/s
and nature in which they choose to live.
   There are many elements it may include torment, bondage, pain,
discipline, degrading, humiliation, some class has taboo, guidance and
ect, but not necessary in a D/s relationship.
   Kink are not domain of BDSM practitioners they can freely enjoy it if
they like. BDSM on the other hand includes sadism and masochism in
the tittle, but D/s element does not demand participation is painful.
   A D/s lifestyle sometimes in play can be cruelty or abuse with the 
perception of the dark side. BDSM  seems to confuse a lot of people.
   We all have enjoyed sin one time or another, but don't believe all
Images you see is based off of a D/s relationship.


Sex and kink are not the heart of D/s relationship.