Saturday, September 11, 2021

The Dominant Responsibilities

 The  Dominant is responsible for the submissive social, emotional and physical well-being.

The Dominant will behave and respect the submissive 

The Dominant will serve the submissive in the best ways to help them both mature and grow.


Grace, elegance and lucidity

Domanant seeks to build environment of grace, elegance with the D/s relationship, the submissive is responsible to find and identify.

The submissive expected to have High-level language skills, use correct grammar, and vocabulary least with some person with collage degree. 

The submissive is responsible for learning a pleasing vocal, modulate, words and clearly voice.

The submissive is responsible for being sensitive to personal dress and appearance at all times. 

core values 

The submissive follows, request directive or instruction from the dominant


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Protocol foe the submissive

The submissive behavior reflects thethe Dominants needs and desires at all times. 

The submissive role is to serve those needs and desires of the Dominant. 

The submissivewill be proud of the collar the Dominant collars you with.

Subissive takes their heavy beating as proof of the Dominant devotion. 


Dominance and submission are anchored in the mental body. 

D/s involves power exchange. it's used dearn a seven or times together. 


A submissive is NOT a girlfriend/boyfriend. A submissive a person with a right in the right in the D/s. 

The submissive is the property and only has the right the Dominant grants. 


The submissive obligations is in this order

1)God

2)Biological family

3)Education

4) Career/professional goals

5) Dominant

6)Household

7)BDSM Community

8) Extra curricular activites


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Friday, September 10, 2021

Addressing the Master

 You should never turn your back on tour Master. when your Master gives you an order or is talking to you. you stop listen no matter what. 

You always address your master in the form Dom, Sir, Master Daddy lord or extra there some like other names just depends on their likes. 

Failure to do that is a form of disrespect and can lead to punishment or even being released. 

A submissive endures the command even if the submissive doesn't like it because it pleases the master the submissive will do it.


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Erotic sex

 Tantra- Means a woman's body is a sacred temple. Doorway to higher fanime energies and honouring it. One can connect to the source.

Yoni contains reflex points of all vital organs and functions. which can be stimulated and activated through touch caress, and a kiss.

There is different kinds of kisses, caresses, and postures suiting to a different kind of woman and man for maximum awakening and channeling of bio energieds.

Love frees liberates

Love the part of erotic centered around worshipping a woman's body especially cummilingus.

69 can be an erotic and sublime bio-energy experience.

Tantra yoga  chanting are done while shakti holds lingam in her mouth and massages vulva deep with tung each part of pussy some aspect of feminine energy resides,

By massaging it with herbal lotions all functions can be heated.


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Tuesday, September 7, 2021

Dominance

 Dominance isn't about sex.

A D/s isn't just about bondage,

and, you and all that kinky stuff you think it is. 

and it's not about keeping a sex slave. 


The problem is that what 90% of people think when they come into the lifestyle, but the wrong Dominance is about being there for the submissive, working through the submissive meltdowns, it's accepting the submissive for who she/he is, it's about being asked do you love me for the millionth time and reinsuring the submissive. 

If tucking the submissive in every night to quiet the demons, or say no. it's being her/his strength.it's struggling off her/his anger and frustrating and encouraging when you can't on her/his own, it's comforting when she/he is scared, it's guiding and building her/him up and most of all it's loving her/him. 


It's a lot of hard work to put into this relationship. it's not fun and not a game or role play like you think it is. but it can be very rewarding. i live it and seen it on my journey. 


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Author Natalie. S.

A submissive expects from a Dominant

 1) She/he needs to be a priority. She/he doesn't want to compete with others. She/he needs to stand out.

2) She/he has emotions and needs to be acknowledged more than bargained.

3) She/he needs you to know better than others do.

4) Don't expect her/he can do what your last sub can do. we all can't do everything.

5) Don't compare her/him. He/she is their own individual. unique in their own way.

6) Let her/him control things (don't let go to head if things done like chores let her/him control it.)

7) Enforce the rules. all the time not because you feel domly, but because you are in a D/s relationship and need the structure. 

8) Remind her/him that He/she is yours every day. She/he wants to hear you say ( I own you).

9) Appreciate the submission she/he gives you . It  takes more to submit then just to obey.(she/he may need to submit every day)

10) Be her/his just like he/she is is yours. let her/him know you are not just a Dom but there Dom.


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Author Natalie.S