1) She/he needs to be a priority. She/he doesn't want to compete with others. She/he needs to stand out.
2) She/he has emotions and needs to be acknowledged more than bargained.
3) She/he needs you to know better than others do.
4) Don't expect her/he can do what your last sub can do. we all can't do everything.
5) Don't compare her/him. He/she is their own individual. unique in their own way.
6) Let her/him control things (don't let go to head if things done like chores let her/him control it.)
7) Enforce the rules. all the time not because you feel domly, but because you are in a D/s relationship and need the structure.
8) Remind her/him that He/she is yours every day. She/he wants to hear you say ( I own you).
9) Appreciate the submission she/he gives you . It takes more to submit then just to obey.(she/he may need to submit every day)
10) Be her/his just like he/she is is yours. let her/him know you are not just a Dom but there Dom.
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Author Natalie.S
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