You can't change a submissive into something she not.

You can't change a submissive into something she not. You protect and guide her help her grow. When she submits to you it is the most precious gift she can give you .
The man should respect this gift above he should respect the waman in his care, it is swearing duty to protect her honor and cherish his submissive.
He is to care and provide a safe haven. He should put his needs above his own needs. Some one that doesn't is no Dominant.