Tips to help prepare you for a leader. Out of 10 Dominants only only 5 will want inexperienced so that they can mold the submissive together they way they want. The other 5 already skilled and dispciplind submissive that knows all the protocols.
Some Dominants will want to know.
Are you really able to handle this?
Are real submissive?
What do you have to show for it?
Are you only in it for the kink and sex?
Do you really know what your getting into?
1) Reading and research - make use of all resources that are available. Erotic is fun and arousing but I'm talking about real BDSM resources, not Facebook, Twitter, and tubler. You may also want a mentor or guardian ect that could help you with this.
2) Kneeling - get used to this, get comfortable with this, know the names of poses.
3) Mediting - can do this with Kneeling in a quiet place for about 30 minutes a day.
4) Edging - Kneeling and meditating and growing knowledge you will likely you will become aroused. You were in habit self-pleasuring but you need habit your orgasms DO NOT BELONG TO YOU train your mind. One way to do this set a schedule for yourself.
Example
Monday edge one time
Tuesday edge two times
Wednesday allow one orgasm
Thursday edge three times
Friday climax three times
Your training body to know when climax is imminent and how to control it.
5) Writing/Journaling Begin a daily journal writing to future Sir. I know a lot of submissive tag a message to there daily to there daily. You can do this also. It will help train your mind. This will help the Dominant know you and the questions are written advance, this is inportant to the Dominant. And writing in a journal helps a submissive with feelings, that you may have after secions.
Note
You may be excited to jump into it and submit. Don't do that take your time let the Dominant lead you but don't let him to quickly. Be prepared mentally and make sure you have the right Dominant.
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