Monday, June 19, 2017

Needy

Two people in a relationship what happens if one stops needing the other?

Some think it such a negative word, some think it is someone unsecure. A person who is in need of emotional support. A person that is desperate for attention.

In security and desperation don't work well together.

Needing someone to take care of you or to lean on is a normal need.

Being a Submissive the need comes out in a need of rules, structure and power exchange.

Neediness come in all relationships without needing each other what holds it together.

In D/s relationship it allows you to create an environment where you are able to discuss your needs in safe conmfortable place. And allows you to create structure and allows both our needs to be met.

I need to feel needed. I think everyone needs to feel needed in way or another.


Note:
Dominants need to be needed, they thrive on helping a submissive, who needs them.  


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