D/s can be hard

D/s is not easy. It is a lot of work. Just like having a full time job. It's not just about rough sex and getting off. Every dynamic is different and unique in its own way.
There can be days your tired and things in life throws at you or had a hard day at work, now your tired and exhausted.
You want to lash out, that's normal but you can't take it out on your D/s relationship. Just stop take deep breath relax . Your not a failure. We understand we are all human.
This lifestyle is not all spankings and blow jobs. It's a lot of hard work, but it very rewarding.