D/s/ and mentor is still a relationship

 This is another topic I decided that needed to be posted about again. because I for one run into this a lot. 

I have respect pure respect even if you are in a relationship with a just mentor or D/s or even both I always have respect when I'm in one or people that are in it. 

remember people have feelings just because they're in a different kind doesn't mean you should treat them differently. 

This is the same as any other relationship we just have rules. 

we don't like to be treated differently Treat us just like you would any other person. 

If you are looking for sex get out this lifestyle is not for you. Yes sex is nice yes kink is nice but that can be in any other relationship this is more way more. 

It's a commitment we say how we feel and mean what we say. their honest loyalty it's not a game like people think when they hear about the lifestyle 

people can get hurt easily without the proper training so don't just jump into this lifestyle.

Bad things happen to everyone and come to this lifestyle it doesn't mean it's for you this is not meant for everyone. yes I seen it help people and yes it's helped me in more ways then one. 

But coming to this lifestyle because you want a title Master, Sir , Dom *** , sub , slave or baby girl 

it doesn't change anything or who you are. 

This lifestyle comes down to one word love 

Just because this lifestyle is for you it doesn't fix the problem only you have that power to fix the problem 

If you are looking for a relation take someone on a date give her a rose or something that just might be all you need so research before you decide oh this is for you because you saw some hot picture on the internet. people get hurt and we all have feelings so research, research, and do more research lord knows I did coming into this lifestyle I didn't have my first seven until a year after getting trained and doing my research Master was strict with me and I am grateful he was 

And remember communication with your partner is a big key 

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Author Natalie. S.

Dominant vs None-dominant

 There so much confusion on this and so many are eager to submit to just any so I decided I need to post this topic again.

So many want to expire submission or just so eager for the kink and the sex, or get the message I'm Master or see there profile full of sex pics say hay ok I think they are real but hear the thing it's not about sex or even the pics you see. 

Then say call me Master, Sir or even Daddy or just depending on who it is so you think it's fun and you go along with it because you want to submit. Here the thing the title earned 

So many of these internet master's are probably rapist abusers or can even be underage kids setting in their mother's basement, so what do you think about that fact 

Now let's go into these submissives or call themselves submissives Some are called fake because they just won't send pics or call you Sir well let me tell you they are probably the real ones the ones so eager to send and submit are probably most likely the fake ones. 

This is fake fake fake dominant if they get angry at you because you won't send. 

Areal Dominant knows trust is earned And knows the submissive well send photo when ready. The Dominant knows well not to ask. 

We call the Fake Dominants Bate's because they want a be's 

I don't really run into this problem because I'm naturally submissive and can point them out to you who real or who's fake I'm not saying they haven't tried lord knows they have tried to so many times. 

I hope this refresher helps you 

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Author Natalie.S

Underrated Dominant phrases

 Some top phrases are taken for granted but they are such full of meaning.

Have you eaten?

Drive careful.

Good morning beautiful.

What did you have for lunch/dinner today?

Sleep well

I'm proud of you.

Are you feeling better?

Take a sweater it's cold out today.

Be safe.

Remember to call me when you arrive.

Those are just a few of the most powerful phrases of Dominant love.

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Journaling and yoga

    Do you keep a journal or diary just for yourself?

   Does you Dominant encourage you to write and, 

 explore your feelings in your journal?

   Yoga and meditate you can focus your body and 

help your mind settle down. Does your Dominant encourage this?

As a submissive we worry too much our minds don't settle down, we need something to help us relax. Submissive are very creative we have beautiful talents just sometimes need help finding that or maybe encouraging that. Submissive all have different and unique skills. 

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