Dominants, real Dominants, true Dominants

Dominants, real Dominants, true Dominants

They are deities amongst us.

They have more mortals.

It's easy to read nice quotes,

touching insights,

do's and dont's,

the feeling they have,

and the divine power.

The right Dominant can walk in life of a submissive

and make it magical and everything better for her.

The sunshine brighter in her eyes,

her heart beat's louder no longer broken,

such power.

That's a good Dominant a real true Dominant

with absolute power. He has all His attention towards

you and magically everything makes since, and life

easier for the submissive.

Not only are they deities amongst us and more mortals.

But they almost grovel at the feet of a submissive at the

same time. They are blessed that a submissive to yield

to their power, but need to be careful or be taken

advantage of.

Dominants are magical beings who can walk into a

life of a submissive and make everything better, and

make a happy ever after that they are grateful for.

The problem is their not magical or divine humans.

Dominants don't always have the answers. They do

have flaws, they can't be perfect.

Good Dominants are capable of doing His best

and doing His best is work with His partner to build

a relationship that works for both of them. He will

support His partner in achieving their goals and

dreams.

A Dominant don't take their submissive for

granted, He cherishes her.

The Dominant responsible of making

submissive life absolutely perfect.

A submissive loves her Dominant dearly.

He helps her in many ways in her life, it

is better with Him. He wonderful partner

best friend, brilliant owner, creative

Dominant. He best person a submissive can

have in her life.

She has flaws, a submissive probably has PTSD

gets nightmares, still gets triggers, has trust issues,

and gets anxious.

A Dominant helps with this. He gives her guidance,

He knowledge this with care. With His skills, love

and desire.

He cant magically make it batter, but He makes it easier

He loves her with her flaws, that's what makes a D/s

relationship.

Author Natalie. S,

Giving Him respect

What makes or breaks

What makes or breaks

Fan mail question

What makes or breaks a D/s relationship?

Answer

You may like to be someone good girl, or just surrender to a partner.

It needs to be someone you trust. You cant just jump into a D/s relationship.

If you jump into one that will break it and it will not work. You need to

spend time together for it to work and build trust for it to work.

Trust is earned not given. You need to work for it to earn trust. That's what

makes it.

It needs to be someone your safe with.

You cant just surrender power to any one you meet.

There needs to be continuous communication from both sides that's the key.  

Author Natalie. S,

D/s relationship isn't always perfect

D/s relationship isn't always perfect

His woman kneels,

holding His drink,

That what Doms/daddies/Masters do.

True Doms never lose their cool,

get's sick,

get's cranky,

need time to them selfs,

cry,

never disappoint their sub,

wrong they do.

True subs never defiant,

disagreeable,

get's grouchy,

get's bratty,

get's defensive,

pouts,

misbehaves,

wrong they do.

In real D/s it has it's problems just like any other relationship.

Sometimes it just may be hard to surrender. She may feel sensitive, sore.

She has pride, she may struggle to kneel before Him and hold her tug.

She may check out, switch off, tune out, to do the task properly, and may

not feel a thing.

She dose this because, she wants to please Him, make Him happy,

because that's what makes her happy and she loves to do this for Him.

It's far from perfect, it has it's struggles. There incredible growth

in the lifestyle, in levels of intimacy connection, desire and communication

then you could ever imagined.  

Author Natalie. S.

Understanding a Domininant

Understanding a Dominant

A Dominant man is confident in Himself,

He knows what he want's and takes it.

He carry Himself with confidence,

He stands up to most.

He understands a submissive,

She feels understood.

He is a real man, not a brick wall.

He hurts, he get's tired, and he can

be weak on some days.

His submissive is strong for Him,

she not clingy, but she His treasure,

His support, she respects and obeys Him.

She gives Him trust, follows His rules.

In return He supports her, guides her,

gives her confidence in herself.

He helps her blossom into a wonderful

submissive that makes Him proud.  

Author Natalie. S,

Power of exchange

Power of exchange

Fan mail question:

As a submissive in a power exchange dynamic, is it good for you to occasionally be required to do things you don't particularly enjoy?

Answer

No you should follow your limits you. You should never be forced, doing something you are not comfortable with.

You should have a list of limits each have a copy of the list

she wants and her wont's

His wants and His wont's

those are called limits, but your Dom should NEVER put you in a spot your NOT comfortable with. She should be able to submit comfortably  

Author Natalie. S,

The word submissive

The word submissive

Many think it is negative to to the outside world.

Here in the states it's value of courage and boldness.

Some rail against submissive tried to devalue those who submit.

Some bully them seeing them has easy targets.

This can easily break a submissive.

A submissive is a symbol of strength and great personal discipline .

A submissive is far from weak.

There some of the toughest people.

Author Natalie. S,

what is a Submissive

What is a submissive

A lot of what you read is not what a submissive is. She is one who obeys without hesitation no matter what, and finds disagreement not to be considered.

She is independent.

One who neither needs any reciprocation of effort, affirmation or good behavior.

She makes no judgment.

A good submissive places her partner happiness before her own.

A good submissive gives pleasing to her partner with her whole heart, with the best effort.

Dose it make you less to think your Dominant return and respect her needs and give positive reinforcement?

No

Is written that a submissive = less then?

No

If a good Dominant expects to be appreciated then the submissive should have the same.

The Dominant has the power over the submissive BUT she should be able to love her Dominant, because that what makes her happy and that's a big apart of who she is.

A submissive needs a Dominant and a Dominant needs a submissive.

A good submissive she loves deeply and generously.

A good submissive shares and thinks openly with her Dominant.

A good Dominant isn't afraid to acknowledge when he is wrong.

A good submissive is never afraid to say sorry when she is wrong.

A good submissive she likes to approach new things (barring hard limits)

This is a real submissive.


Author Natalie. S.